Second Chances and Twin Flames
Updated: Jan 16
Take what resonates and leave the rest. I’ve always felt that giving second chances was important. In fact, I think it’s more important for me to be able to give them than to be concerned as much about the person receiving it. I’ve made it a practice in my life, to hear out anyone who came to me with an apology or a problem they wanted to rectify between us. Unfortunately, we have all been living in a very 3D world where ego and pride thrive, and as a result, that gets in the way of remorseful karma clearing, in general.
But the planet is rising out of that. 5D consciousness is making a serious dent in the way people look at their lives, actions and behaviors. As Twin Flames, we now have an opening to not only give ourselves a second chance but our connections, as well.
Now seems to be the time to really open up to something new within our divine connections – especially if you’ve been feeling disillusioned or disheartened. Astrologically, (I’m not an astrologer but I like to pass on the tidbits I come across) we are set for major chakra upgrades in the coming weeks (I will post a few links at the end of the blog you can investigate on your own.) This is likely going to be uncomfortable and maybe even physically or emotionally painful as we experience (even more, aargh!) purging of old karmic patterns and denseness. The universe is helping us achieve a clean slate in body, mind, and spirit. A new jumping off point to manifest our dreams and aspirations from an even larger space of clarity. The energy is fresh and there is a sense of discovery in the air.
How does this work for Twin Flames? Astrologers say that this fresh energy is great for practicing forgiveness and releasing the past. Some of you may have done some serious and wonderful work in this area and others may still be struggling. I’m suggesting that you use this freshness to fuel a feeling of being light and raising you up to a point of objectivity of your soul connection.
Chances are, you’ve experienced or are currently experiencing, a period of separation with your Divine Counterpart. Maybe that’s extremely painful to you right now or maybe, like me, you’ve worked your way through it, healed a lot, grew a lot and now you are into embracing yourself and your own journey rather than the hurtful past. You figured out that your soul connection, twin flame, or whatever you want to call them (labels become obsolete on this journey after a while) was a Divine Catalyst and you’re grateful for the spark. You are also probably curious what it all means and how it would play out should they ever show up in your life again, but you are also content and fulfilled on your own. You’ve had your walls up a bit when it comes to love, though, and you’ve grown weary of that, too. “But I want to maintain boundaries and my Twin Flame really hurt me. How do I trust them again?”, you say. The answer to that is that you don’t have to trust Them. You have to trust Yourself.
Huh? Listen, you’ve worked so very hard to get to this solid foundation of healing and growth that you currently stand on. It is time you felt how intertwined with it that you really are. Trusting deeply in yourself is way more life changing and re-directing than trusting in anybody else. Other people, every last one of them, are going to shake your faith now and again. But if you have an unshakeable trust in yourself, you can comfortably navigate your relationships. You are not that shaky little girl or boy who desperately needed validation and acceptance just a few short years ago. You are not a doormat anymore, either. You figured out the ways you went wrong in the past and you’ve worked to rectify that in yourself. You have set boundaries, learned to walk away from nonsense and to say no to things that don’t align with your values or beliefs. You are stronger and smarter and most of all…. you’ve got this. And when you understand that and live in it, then second chances are not a problem. Fear in trusting someone else doesn’t exist. In fact, you’ll recognize second chances as cathartic and bringing in a welcoming energy for everyone involved.
But wait… there’s something more here, too. I bet you’re feeling that it’s time to soften a little, right? All that hard work you did had your masculine side running fiercely so wouldn’t it be nice to experience those softer feminine traits you embody, as well? When you become aware that you are on (what’s popularly called) The Twin Flame Journey, you learn early that all humans embody masculine and feminine energy or traits and the key is to bring them into balance with each other within yourself. The masculine rolls up his sleeves and gets the work done, the feminine is intuitive and open, softer and embracing. What I see happening now is that your masculine side played a big part in building that solid foundation I was referring to. It looks good and functions well. But your feminine side now wants to decorate the space and make it a nice place for both of them to live. This fresh energy coming in calls out our Sacred Feminine (also called Divine Feminine) traits. It’s thanking the Masculine for taking the lead for a while and it is opening a space for the Feminine to welcome him in, take stock and start anew together. Now, if this is happening within you, don’t you think it can manifest in some form outside of you? Have you been feeling this? I know I have. More than anything I just want to be The Crone. But that’s a blog topic for another time…
Will certain second chances that you give or seek out be a disappointment? Most definitely. But at least you can say, “Now, I know” and that energy will be settled. You’ll feel good about your ability to stay open to others while maintaining your fairness and boundaries. And if that second chance works out to be a good thing, then you are starting fresh with an old friend, family member or acquaintance and that brings in a brightness all its own.
So why not reconsider your Twin Flame connection? Don’t create any new attachments to an outcome but why not open up to a clean slate energy with your counterpart? Certainly, it will do a great deal of good for your connection with your TF’s Higher Self and maybe it will even help to manifest something nice in the 3D between you. You never know. I am not promising reunion and I’m not encouraging you to take any action other than just changing your perspective on your situation, but I’ll bet that being open to receive love and dropping any walls you have, might just do wonders for your creativity, clarity and attitude. And that is always attractive. In the end, that is exactly what this journey is all about. It’s about you growing and healing in order to raise your vibration and embody unconditional love.
Seems obvious but there’s something you should know. I’m not a medical or psychological professional so anything I write and publish comes from my own experiences. I share these experiences to help others open their mind and think a bit. It’s not a substitute for sound medical and psychiatric advice from a professional. Just a laywoman looking for understanding and reporting on what she found at this point on her journey. We all need spiritual guidance as much as we need medical help so use your discernment to get what you need when you need it.
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